Romace and all that lovey dovey stuff....

Okay. So here is the deal. Romance....it doesn't seem like something that people run after anymore. It seems like all they want are lust or companionship. To me? I don't need that. If I am going to take my sweet, precious time and spend it with a man, it is going to be for the goal of love and romance.

As my mom would say whilst watching a romance movie with a fairytale ending, "That stuff just doesn't happen in real life."  I would beg to differ. Maybe not in all cases whatsoever, but I do believe that there are some true stories of love out there and of finding the perfect match.

So, what I am getting at is what in my terms should a guy do for me.
Not to sound conceited or like I need the whole world, but I am not going to waste my time on a guy unless I get something in return.....and NO its not THAT something....(go on with your dirty mind).
I want a movie date with an actual dinner before. I want to share a popcorn and laugh together at the movie. I DO NOT want making out the whole time and when you leave the theatre you are still wondering what movie you went to see. I want to know. I want to be able to enjoy it as I would by myself, just in the prescence of a beloved guy friend or boyfriend or mate that makes me enjoy the movie that much more.....If not for that, I will just go to the movie by myself or with another friend.

I want picniks.....walks in the park/ beach. Not necessarily gripping the fool out of their hand, maybe just walking in the sand laughing at jokes and such.... Maybe even sit in a swing. Who knows.....just his presence and conversation and maybe SOMETIMES holding hands or cuddling or whatever is involved. BUT BY NO MEANS DO I WANT HIS TONGUE GOING DOWN MY THROAT! To me that is jsut gross. Lust, passion, french kissing whatever you want to call it!! It is not me. A kiss should mean more than making out with your boyfriend in the school hallway so everyone can see. It should be something shared between you and him.
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I want PHONE CALLS and every now and then so that they actually mean something. I do not want a text on my phone everyday when I get out of school. I don't want to fill in conversation with bits of fluff. I don't want to say I LOVE YOU....until I mean it!!! This saying is not something you take lightly!

I don't want to be "going out" with someone. That's just a phrase that represents texting, saying i love you when you barely know the person, and probably benefits that do NOT need to be shared.

I want to lay under the stars just talking about whatever comes to mind. I don't want physical contact to be a huge factor.

I want to dance in the middle of a ballroom with all eyes on him & me. I want the gorgeous dress and all the fine things that go with it. I want him all dressed up in a handsome suit. I want him worried about his 2 left feet, but then he ends up being amazing at dancing. And it just comes natural for me & him.

Most of all.....I want to be taken out on a genuine date. I want the guy to call me up and ask me out. I want the certain day, time, and place. I want him to pick me up. I want him to care about me. I don't want him to want to change me. If he can't accept me the way that I am....well that's easy...he doesn't deserve me.

I guess I am a romantic. So sue me. I do not believe that chivalry is dead. I do think that there are some men out there that exist and want the same things. To me, a relationship  is not worth putting up with less than you expect. I mean, NO relationship is perfect. There will be downfalls and screw ups. But if your relationship isn't something that you would run to at the end of the day, than it's not worth it....

Lazy Sunday....

Today was definitely NOT productive. Sat around in my room, watching movies and attempting to do U.S. History homework. I watched a bunch of movies. First one was "Maid in Manhattan". Such a classic movie. I also watched "The American President". I absolutely love that movie. Such a classic romance. I think I just basically repeated myself.....oh well.


But now I am watching "The Glee Project"....Fingers crossed for Damian.


Well this is my first blog. I will hopefully get better at writing these, but so far....I'm at a loss for words already. I better get on to doing my homework...


Look back in the future for more!!

P.S. I keep coming up with ideas for great blogs, so hopefully I will be able to write them soon.